Manoj Nayak ko Tinu Cherian pe gussa kyu aaya!

I am wondering why I am writing this article, as you all know that I pretty much like to mind my own business. But someone or something really caught my goat and that was Mr. Tinu Cherian malicious, petty and cheap prank to defame IIPM on the 12/13th of Jan 2012. ( Mr. Cherian describes himself in his twitter bio as Dreamer, Techie, Wikipedia Admin, @WikimediaIndia Exec Com Member , Top 15 influential Indian in Social Media, Blog @ DreamingCherries.com. ) Mr. Tinu Cherian also has envy worthy more than 73000 followers.

Disclaimer: I am not a IIPM graduate, nor I am a SRK or Arindam Chaudhuri fan, infact I hate the kind of marketing campaign they run. Hope you all know what is IIPM otherwise go here http://www.iipm.edu/

Also I have never seen the beautiful face of Mr. Tinu Cherian till this incident (or never noticed) and have never had any personal or professional grouse with him previously.

Here I am embedding some of Mr. Cherian’s tweets so you know, how the story goes and maybe you will see the reason for my anger or you probably wont, but that’s fine. The reason for my anger is that a responsible (or irresponsible) member of the cyber world like Mr. Tinu Cherian who has more than 73000 followers, decided to play a Joke at IIPM, and it reeked of conspiracy and bad taste to me. Let me know if you agree or disagree after going through this entire blogpost?

Picture Referred in the Tweet: This got 50+ RT

After seeing this Tweet I was concerned that a big organisation like IIPM known to be cash rich is threatening legal action against a blogger/Tweeple like @tinucherian . I was alarmed at such a scenario which threatens our freedom of speech and Re-tweeted it immediately and urgently. (At this point I had no reason to believe that @tinucherian is trying to defame IIPM as a consequence of this prank). But the following Tweet which came with twitpic of a email sent by some Ramya Walkhare made it pretty obvious that this was a cheap and petty prank, Check tweet below.

Now the problem with this email (from a id I assume Mr. Cherian has created himself to amuse us) is that it doesnt seem to have an Official signature at the end of the email nor does it have a official email id. Also It seems quite unlikely that IIPM would use such an unprofessional launguage and a fake id to top it.

When I questioned him on this, I got a equally irresponsible answer, Below is his tweet.

I know @tinucherian has all the right to create a practical Joke and maybe IIPM actually did send him this email. But thats precisely what I doubt, and there is my case. Tinu Cherian being a social media guy (his bio claims Top 15 influential Indian in Social Media) and a Wikipedia Admin, with an army of more than 73K followers is not a JOKER without any motivation, and what are his motives remain questionable?

The purpose of this blog post is my morbid dislike, that a few social media guys/agencies who sit in Chennai and Bangalore or wherever supported by their vast network of allies sitting in Mumbai and Delhi, take their freedom of expression for granted and form an unholy nexus among themselves and conspire to defame a brand for monetary or personal reasons.

Till now I haven’t heard any news from Mr Cherian confirming the threat or calling it a hoax. Wonder which brand is next in line for Mr. Cherian’s practical joke? If someone proves that the email was actually sent by IIPM staff. I would gladly restore my faith in one of the top 15 Social media guy in India and delete this blog post if it matters at all to Mr. Tinu Cherian’s spotless reputation.

UPDATE: 

After I put up this blog post on Saturday night, I received a quite a few replies from @tinucherian , He basically beleives I have nothing to do with IIPM and also he has assured me that he had no intention to malign IIPM and it was not deliberate and that he is hounded by IIPM fake accounts and the email was sent probably by some agency who runs IIPM social media campaign. But what interested me more that he has admitted that he reacted hastily. Below is his tweet saying so, I certainly hope he gets over his unhealthy obsession with IIPM and finds a better cause. He has also metioned that he would be doing a blog post on this, explaining his POV, I would certainly like to know @tinucherian’s mind a bit better.

I wont be updating this blogpost anymore if anyone needs to follow this story , they can check the storify feed (link below) I will keep updating as I can.

[View the story “Petty & Cheap anti #IIPM campaign by @tinucherian” on Storify]

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Top 10 kind of tweeple I choose not to follow on twitter

Ok here Is my “top 10 kind of tweeple I choose not to follow on twitter.”

1) I will not follow people who who are neither right nor left nor centre of right. In short, very prejudiced people are out from my twitter follow list.

2) People who lifecast, I occasionally like to envy on the designer coffee you are having or will chuckle on your observation of random people and places. But if it’s not buffered (spaced well), I will not show any regret when I hit the unfollow.

3) Emotional people – Iam hugely guilty on this count, especially when its late in the night, I like to let out. But I am not going to follow a late night philosopher. Sorry.

4) people who mostly share updates via Facebook. Twitter is a different audience, treat it separately please!

5) People who unneccessary and mindlessly RT with a comment and make me part of online white noise. You are unfollowed.

6) then there are people who think you should follow them, just because they follow you. No! I can’t do that, my attention is limited and I will pick and choose and unfollow you when you no longer give me relevant feedback or information.

7) Pretty girls calling for attention (not from me though, I’m ignored, but my TL) are promptly dumped.

8) arrogant geeks

9) abstract talkers or smart talkers. So what we are friends, buzz off.

10) people like me!

Why I left the Twitter cocktail Party.

Painting By Jokulo Cooper

Twitter or rather social networking is like a cocktail party. There are friends, there are aquaintances and then there are friends of friends and many perfect strangers who you can freak out!.  They all meet, intermingle and have a ball of time. Sometime they  form small groups, sometimes they stand alone in the crowd.

I was a regular at the twitter cocktail party, I usually kept to myself nursing my drink, But I just decided to call it a day! why?

I unfollowed around 250 people I used to follow, these are the people who dont tweet or sometimes they are tweeple who you converse, but they havent come around to follow you back. It just means they like you enough to say “cheers” but dont want to be seen with you socially. (Ok, I maybe wrong, but I am assuming here.)

What I would like to do is bring down the number of the people I follow to 150 people. These would be essentially people I know in person “OR” people who add great value to my network, by sharing interesting (relevant) things.

For the people in the cocktail circuit , If you need to connect with me, you can always email me at manoj at manojnayak dot com.

BTW I used Twitter Karma to unfollow.

What to do in case there is wife beating or domestic violence in your neighbourhood.

  1. I asked my Facebook and twitter community for help, below are some of the responses.
  2. “@powaiinfo: Just got a call from a friend that a guy is beating his wife and kids mercilessly, she is asking what to do? Any NGO? #fb”
    December 15, 2011 2:37:02 PM EST
  3. @powaiinfo the neighbours should go and ring the bell…atleast the firts level of intervention a mesage that they are being watched…
    December 15, 2011 2:37:55 PM EST
  4. @powaiinfo helpline 103 for women, senior citizens and children. the that is best to stop the abuse then the ngo can intervene
    December 15, 2011 10:09:05 PM EST
  5. @powaiinfo CALL THE POLICE.
    December 15, 2011 2:37:36 PM EST
  6. @Sengupta @powaiinfo Go ring the door bell.
    December 15, 2011 2:42:44 PM EST
  7. @Sengupta @powaiinfo 103 / 7738133133 / 7738144144
    December 15, 2011 2:43:38 PM EST
  8. @sahilk @powaiinfo When it is physical violence- unless you’re entirely sure you can take the guy down, do no such thing. Call the police.
    December 15, 2011 2:45:16 PM EST
  9. Sahil argues that the best first plan of action is “Bell Bajao!”
  10. @Sengupta @powaiinfo Not about bringing the other guy down. Just ring the door bell. Remember the Bell Bajao campaign?
    December 15, 2011 2:46:29 PM EST
  11. Bellbajao.org is a NGO that trains people to fight against DOMESTIC VIOLENCE.
  12. @Sengupta @powaiinfo Here: bellbajao.org/
    December 15, 2011 2:48:11 PM EST
  13. @manojnayak @powaiinfo you could pass this on bellbajao.org/ thanks @AnkitBathija
    December 15, 2011 3:09:45 PM EST
  14. @powaiinfo where is it? u can call police senior mr kolekar asap… 9821270474
    December 15, 2011 2:52:01 PM EST
  15. December 15, 2011 3:13:07 PM EST
  16. @Naina @DKMahant @powaiinfo call the cops! DV Act!
    December 15, 2011 3:13:41 PM EST
  17. @DKMahant @Naina @powaiinfo please google Lawyers Collective and search their mumbai number on website.. Its a ngo for womens rights.
    December 15, 2011 3:18:12 PM EST
  18. @Naina @powaiinfo Ask her to contact the Women & Child Welfare Dept.’s Helpline number in tht city !
    December 15, 2011 3:20:57 PM EST
  19. @powaiinfo @shivOO @vivekvpandit sharadpawar the local corporator lives in lakeside. He’s a helpful person. Can approach
    December 15, 2011 4:11:33 PM EST
  20. @Naina @vishweshk @powaiinfo dfon’t know about NGO, but she must file a police complaint – an FIR and NOT NC, to protect self. Insist on FIR
    December 15, 2011 9:06:19 PM EST
  21. Last SMS I got from the friend was that the beating had stopped and the family seems to have gone to sleep. She said it was a routine matter and she would use the information next time to complain.

How to set up a Self Hosted WordPress Blog and start making money.

I read this morning around 275 million people used wordpress to blog in the month of October 2011. But this is not a great figure, considering a thriving population of 7 billion on this planet.

Leaving this figure aside, My personal objective is to convince more and more people to start a blog and then make money out of the blogs. A blog it is said takes around 8 years to start paying off so that you can quit your job and become a full time blogger. I really dont have the figure on how many people in India survive with Blogging income as their main source of income.

I have been lucky, I started making money from the 1st year onward, and this is my 3rd year that I am a full time blogger. I have actually evolved in to hyper-local media website. What I want to share is that I have the formula which I can share that you start making money via blogging, and at the end of the 3rd year, you can kiss your 9 to 5 job goodbye and start living by your blog and working on what you are passionate about.

Check this presentation video below and drop me a line if you need help on setting up a blogging business.